Epitaph is not the End, by E. Melissa Sargent. Vantage Press.
(I am searching for this book. If you have a copy you are willing to part with, please contact me.)
If you know of any other good sources, please pass them on. I am always on the lookout for especially good work.
And note this:
PLAN YOUR EPITAPH DAY happens on November 2nd.
Join millions of others in celebration and tell your friends and your favorite media people about it.
"...a brief existence is common to all things, and yet you pursue and avoid things as if they would be eternal. A little time and your eyes will close, and he who attends you to your grave will soon lament another." --Marcus Aurelius